Richard Sherman’s NFC Championship game saving play and immediate reaction during his post game interview has spurned a lot of discussion. The reaction, mostly negative seem to come from two separate parties: One that is shocked that the gladiator leaving the field of gridiron battle was not calm and composed immediately after making the play of his life. The second was a selective set of white folks viewing him as a black out of control mandingo ready to devour every white woman in the Emerald City.
I thought the interview with Erin Andrews was awesome! His raw and unapologetic rant, the result of the competing for the ultimate prize in his sport against a heated rival made me feel as if I was on the field. While others found it difficult to understand, I resonated being totally invested in stiff competition with personal feelings at stake. I thought of my own Richard Sherman moments.
One that I will never forget happened years ago playing basketball with some brothers from a church I attended. We met every Saturday afternoon at a local community center. The competition was pretty good and the name of the game was to win and stay on the court. These games often were personal to me because we had rivalries among the brethren. That was the way I felt anyway…
A LITTLE BACKGROUND
Growing up I wasn’t a basketball player. Baseball was my sport. I taught myself how to play through battling against some of the toughest players the area. I thrived on effort and intuition. I did whatever it took to win and it didn’t matter if I felt I had to score all of the points or none. All I cared about was winning or competing at my highest level with no regrets. I wasn’t that guy who tried to “Be Like Mike.” For me it was about not cheating myself from within. Basketball was just a game, but competing in the right way meant that anything less than an all out effort was selling myself short. If I didn’t stand up for myself I believed I would be punking out. In those years I was still learning how to be a man. Part of my personal rights of passage was to match myself up against other men in competition. Simply put, I believed that if I can play this game and beat guys who were often times better than me skill wise or more athletically inclined, that meant I could compete in life in the career market and otherwise. It was a self test of survival.
I wasn’t a great player but I could hold my own and I often did. I gained a lot of respect among my peers. For some reason, not with some of these guys I played with from church. I would often get picked last below players whom I knew I was better than. Sometimes I wouldn’t get picked at all. That would burn me up. Once captains were chosen, I would throw my finger up asking one of the guys to pick me up. Sometimes no one did. I would have to wait and get ‘next.’ That would burn me up even more!
This one particular day I was one of the last picked up. One of the players on the other team was one of the better players. He had never picked me on his side. So once again, I created a chip boulder on my shoulder that said, “You are going to regret that you didn’t pick me…. ALL FREAKING DAY LONG.”
As custom, we gathered to pray first and play began. As the games went on my team collected a few wins. We took on all challengers and different team combinations from game to game. There was trash talking, and more than a few arguments. Towards the end of the evening, after winning 6 straight games I was ready to shut it down. For years I had struggled with a sharp shooting pain down my right leg, which I found out later was sciatic nerve pain from a herniated disk in my back. At this point I had a hard time walking. One of the players on the other team wanted one more rematch. Marjobo and I went to school together so we went way back. He had been talking trash to me all day long though I was sticking it in his ass. He was especially irritating and was relentlessly non stop with his rants and name calling.
I have never been the trash talker many guys are. I always believed the biggest competition was with myself. I’ve gotten my ass handed to me by some great players. And I’ve done my share of winning. But I had no sorrows if I knew I gave it my all against them. My never quit no excuses attitude is how I got my respect. On the flip side, guys who talked trash to me often took me to a deeper level of intensity. My friend Richard Dix knows this all too well. We played one on one often. On most occasions the results went about 50-50. Richard was long, athletic and could jump. But, Richard’s downfall was his pride. If he were winning, he had to let me know about it. He would talk, laugh and say stupid things. From then on I would start into another gear. As I would pile on the points he would say something like, “Oh boy, I see you done got quiet. Here we go!” I would be in an assassin’s mentality. Richard called it my, “You ain’t my friend no more mode.” Either way, I don’t think he ever beat me when I was in that state of mind.
I told Marjobo my leg was bothering me. I needed to sit it out. He egged me on saying I was a scared punk who didn’t want him to beat me. After a few minutes I said to myself, “F’it… let’s go!”
The two teams went at if for about 20-25 minutes. Back and forth the score went. Game was to 12 but it was win by 2. Richard was there but he was watching. Basketball never meant that much to him. After a couple games, he was just hanging with the brothers. He was entertained by the drama. Marjobo was talking and talking. I never said a word. Dragging my leg around I did everything I could to rebound and play defense. Finally we went up 16-15 with one basket to go for game time. I received a pass on a cut to the paint, went up for the shot and as the ball went through the basket, my inner Richard Sherman came through in front of all these dudes I went to church and worshipped with every Sunday as I screamed at the top of my lungs:
GET YO MOTHERFU#@$! ASSES OFF MY GOTDAMN COURT! THIS IS MY MOTHERFU#@$! HOUSE! BUSTA ASS NI@@AS CAN’T F#@! WITH ME!!!!!!!! NOW DON’T SAY SH#! ELSE!!!! ALL YA’LL DISMISSED!!!
There was total silence in the gym, except for Richard who was on the floor rolling around laughing. He said, “I told ya’ll. Don’t say nothing to that dude. Just play and leave him alone!” I’m sure the other guys were thinking, “I knew he wasn’t saved!”
I can tell you over 10 years later that my response was totally unplanned and 100% organic. It didn’t matter. My mother, my kids, the pastor or anybody could have been there at the time. I was mentally out of my mind with a euphoric satisfaction that was probably something like being high on crack for the first time. My reaction wasn’t who I was on a day to day basis. But it was within me. I was a conquering warrior for that moment. When I went home I could barely move the pain was so horrific. I had an MRI and had the first of two back surgeries less than two weeks later. For all of the days I suffered waiting on the surgery, as I reflected back I said to myself every single time it was all worth it. I was just a guy playing some rec ball. This wasn’t my career or my life’s dream. What do you think it was like for Richard Sherman?
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