When I was at Webster University I took a class called Religion and Political Conflict. It was one of my favorite classes, as it inspired critical thinking. Our professor, Chris Parr assigned us a paper asking the question: Why do people threaten violence and wage war in the name of religion? I titled my response paper, “The Deity Factor.’
The basic premise is that a person will do most anything no matter how heinous if they believe the orders are from their highest power. As much good that is done in this world for the sake of the deity factor, there are just as many if not more evil done against mankind. This could range from feeding the poor, evangelism, or strapping a pack of C4 on their bodies and killing innocent people. Logic and self analysis fall to the deity. This is because the follower believes his/her eternal state depends on pleasing the deity. Frankly, when dogmatic belief is serious enough, one would do anything to satisfy that longing to be approved of by his god.
What is interesting about the deity factor, is that it’s easy for those to believe their own illogical ideologies, while thinking others are ridiculous. For instance, I can’t understand how radical Muslim extremist believe that the reward for martyrdom is 72 virgins in the great by and by. I mean, you blew your body to pieces, and dead people can’t have physical sex. And what does that say about a female martyr? She can’t have 72 fresh penises because the sexism that rules on earth carries over to heaven or paradise. Sounds like a raw deal for the sisters to me!
Unnamed female Islamic radical
There is a segment of the White Christians who inherently believe that they are superior to all others based on their color. They have used their interpretations of the bible to justify slavery then, and status now.
As silly as that martyr/virgin sounds to most, many Christians, don’t see the similarities or hypocrisy they display when they openly discriminate against the gays and lesbians. This seems especially true of the Black Christian community. I’ve had a plethora of discussions with my Black Christian socially conservative friends. I am amazed at how they hand select scriptures that supports their discriminative beliefs, but turn an unapologetic blind eye to other scriptures that would make their own lives uncomfortable. Many are otherwise intelligent and thoughtful people. But once the dogma of the deity come into play, they turn into blind nincompoops.
I wasn’t always as passionate about supporting the LGBT community as I have been in recent years. I had never been an all out bigoted idiot, but I certainly wasn’t a friend. There are some elements within the gay community that still rub me the wrong way. I still typically frown on what I view as an overly effeminate male who acts more girlish than the most girly girl I know. I agreed with a former gay male friend of mine when he told me, “I’m gay, but I can’t stand a sissy!” That’s on me and I’ve been working on growing above that judgment.
A more appropriate critique that I do challenge them on is wanting to be equal without embracing the ability to take a joke. I hate racism but I am able to critique black folk, laugh at myself and my people. No group can truly prosper and be taken seriously if its members take themselves too seriously. Some of my gay friends haven’t gotten there yet.
In a most recent conversation on social media, some black folks were asking the question, “Why does Michael Sam have to announce that he’s gay? What is the big deal? He’s gay…. I’m straight. So what?” I explained why Michal Sam made his announcement. (As if it wasn’t obvious) I further explained that these same people who resent Sam for making his ‘announcement,’ don’t bat an eye when a ball player is interviewed after a victory and they say, “I want to thank my lord and savior Jesus Christ who gave us the victory.” When Kurt Warner played for the Rams, St. Louisans heard this every week. (Unless the Rams lost and Kurt sucked) When Tim Tebow talked about his faith 24-7, it never occurred to Christians who supported his rhetoric, that Jesus never threw a pass, never threw a block, made a devastating tackle or sacked the other team’s quarterback. Public figures give credit to their deity thereby ‘announcing’ their religious beliefs every day.
Christians love it when famous people do it. It confirms their own brand of faith. On the flip side, they merely reject Sam because his gayness doesn’t jive with their brand of religion dogma. I told my Christian friends that to reject this recognition in light of the original question they posed about Sam’s announcement is being intellectually dishonest. Of course, neither logic, theory, nor the incredible amount of irony couldn’t crack that steel wall of dogma!
Michael Sam’s return to Mizzou Feb 15, 2014
I pointed out that… “the real issue for you wasn’t Sam making an announcement, it was what he announced. To suggest otherwise when you applaud announcements that support their own beliefs is hypocrisy and intellectually dishonest. And while gays are catching hell every day, you lack empathy for their struggle while still getting pissed at white folk who are racist against you and people who look like you.”
Look, the LGBT community has been here since the beginning of civilization. In 20 years, there may not be a such thing as a closeted gay person. You won’t be able to pray them away… and they aren’t trying to change your minds about them. Neither will I. You are free to hold on to your prejudices. Just keep in mind the flip side.
Every time you criticize them for asking for what is rightfully their’s, (which is to live and be allowed to live,) you sound just like White folk who say, “I’m tired of your black shit! Trayvon Martin was a thug and deserved what he got! And so did Jordan Davis. What are you crying about? This isn’t 1964 anymore. Don’t talk to me about disproportionate injustice and mass incarceration rates. You have Oprah, Michael Jordan and Tiger Woods. Dammit you have a black president for godsakes. I never owned slaves. Shut the hell up about racism already!
Many Christians I know say that homosexuality and gay rights are being forced down their throats. And yet this is the same language used in Mississippi, Alabama, and so forth when it came to Black folk as it pertains to equality.
I am certainly not going to suggest that you change your mind about approving of homosexuals. Just as I am not looking to convince a racist white person to appreciate me for who I am. But what I am asking you to consider is the same thing I ask of the prejudice:
You don’t have to love me. You don’t have to like or approve of me. But don’t attempt to stop me from prospering. Don’t kill me advocate or excuse violence against me. Don’t arrest me for unjust reasons. Don’t deny me equal opportunities. Don’t stand in my way as I look to create a decent life for myself and feed my family. Don’t support legislation that denies me full equal rights that you support for yourself. Keep your prejudices if you must, but don’t exploit my life and ruin my opportunities because of them. And dammit don’t support or excuse those who do.
If you can do that, you won’t hear me say another word!