Well I hadn’t seen my new grandson Xavier William since he was born. But I had occasion to attend his baptism service which was conducted according to the Lutheran faith of his parents. He was just toooo handsome in his little Christening suite. He looks just like his mom when she was a baby!
Anyway it was a joyous occasion though I was feeling a bit under the weather.
I look forward to keeping Lil X in the new future overnight.
*Pictured 1. Xavier with his parents Justin and Chrystal and the pastor, 2. The sprinkling, 3. X and Grandad
I came across this article from cnn.com and it basically says that women should NOT be the first to say, “I love you” in a relationship.
The ironic part to me is that a feminist wrote the article who also believes it’s perfectly fine for a woman to ask a man out, make the first move, and even propose. She believes these three words however opens a bit of a “Pandora’s Box”.
… I love you” uttered too soon, before the man has processed his feelings and reached the same level of adoration could end a relationship that just as easily could have had an eternal shelf life. As soon as those words are said, they change the dynamic. If a man isn’t feeling the love quite yet, he may suddenly feel pressure to manifest that emotion. And if the woman doesn’t get the response she expected, it could damage her confidence enough to derail the whole relationship entirely.
I have my own views on this subject, and I have heard others as well that agree with some of the beliefs from the author. However, never with the caveat that a woman can basically do everything but utter the ‘L’ word first.
I would gather to guess that my female feminist friends would not agree with any limitations set on them within a relationship. Equally though I feel most of them have more traditional standards than they readily admit to.
So where do you the reader come out on this? Is it fair game for women to do whatever in pursuing a man? Or should she take a more conservative approach and allow the man to pursue and ‘conquer’ or win her heart?